On IntentionalProsperity.com’s sister site www.passion-unlocks-prosperity.com one of the most requested pages, (according to google) is “Fear of Happiness”…So I thought it might be a good topic for this forum…

Have you been conditioned to believe that happiness is something you must first earn before you have the right to experience it? That it is something that comes only after struggle, pain and discomfort? A commodity you have to pay for in advance before you can actually experience it in your life…

Have you ever felt uncomfortable or had the feeling of dread when something good (that makes you feel happy) suddenly appears in your life?…Wondering when “its too good to be true” is going to kick in and bring everything back to the way it was?

Hey, I’ve been there. For many years I thought that I simply didn’t deserve joy and fulfillment in my life…So, I made sure that I didn’t have any. You see, when you honestly believe you don’t deserve good in your life you will sabotage whatever good does appear in your life…I know, I did it many times… And in those moments when I knew I was engaging in activities that would quickly undermine the good thing…It was as if I heard the combined voices of every negative person and bad experience from my past suddenly confirming that I was not worthy of happiness.

Those feelings that take over and lead you to actively deconstruct joy and happiness in your life are powerful and ever present.

There is only one cure that I know (first hand) that works like magic to erase those feelings…Feeling which always set the stage for our automatic deconstructive attitudes and actions: Self forgiveness and forgiving others.

To change the underlying emotional echoes of past experiences which act to sabotage our day to day life we must take direct action to once and for all break the hold of those past experiences which have no real connection to who we’ve become or choose to be…

Until that personal cleansing and healing process is undertaken, you will see the continuation of your life playing the same old movie over and over again…A movie that always has the same predictable ending regardless of the situation, the scene and the actors.

You are both the script writer and Director of your life movie…So do some editing in your emotional memory bank and give yourself the outcome you desire.

You deserve joy, continuing happiness and fulfillment in your life…The fact that you’ve made it this far means you have successfully earned your place in the sun…
Now claim it!

-Bob Baran