Published by Bob on 17 Jan 2011
Healing And Recovering: Part Two
On the other hand you can choose real healing:
For some, this will be the more emotionally painful route. But, and this is important – facing the truth about how your ego/personality had become the “ruler and rationalizer” of your life – and taking personal responsibility for those actions – is the quickest path to clearing away – once and for all – misplaced efforts and questionable assumptions that have conspired over time to rob you of your joy.
Plowing through that mountain of rationale and getting your ego/personality back to it’s subservient role (to your Higher Self) is a one-time pain…
You don’t have to keep going through it again and again
Like you would if you choose to deny… Denial is nothing more than pain deferred. Not pain dissolved.
Remember:
Denying and avoiding now only sets you up for the next much more painful emotional experience. Yeah, it keeps getting worse until it finally gets your attention…
Consciously choosing to be the victim as your preferred “healing methodology” is not really healing at all. Just rebuilding your ego.
It’s the emotional equivalent of “self medication”.
Personal responsibility (no matter how unjustified it feels) is a one-time clearing, learning and growing experience. For many, accepting full responsibility is fraught with the feeling that you are betraying yourself (which is true from the standpoint of your ego).
However, your true self/higher self- which requires no rationalization for its’ existence (as does the ego) – is fully capable of accepting responsibility for the creation of it’s life experience…
The contrast between joy and pain
…is the ultimate lesson waiting to reveal itself in every life experience when you’re finally willing to consider – “what if I really did set all this up?”
You’ll begin a remarkable journey asking yourself the hard questions – and fearlessly accepting the truth about yourself.
You see, most people avoid this kind of ruthlessly honest introspection throughout their life. They never expunge their false notions because their ego keeps a tight lid on what they will even consider.
That’s why most are doomed to repeat the same emotional journey- no matter how different the “stage, players or script” happens to be next time around.
It’s called being stuck.
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