The Best Years of Your Life… Now!

This is the 301st posting on this blog.

As a result of coming into a greater realization of my own true purpose - providing an opportunity for people to rediscover their innate potential - which is only possible by consciously surrendering to a power greater than themselves - has caused me to recognize that I can directly affect many more individuals with a very different mechanism than this blog and weekly newsletter.

Therefore, this is the last blog posting in the “Best Years of Your Life” series… These articles and postings will continue to be available on this web site.

My time and effort will now be focused on helping individuals - who are ready - to discover their true life purpose utilizing the “mechanism” I believe most fully exemplifies the ideals, aspirations and principles I have always believed in and espoused.

With this in mind I am going to make available - free of charge - access to the Intentional Prosperity™ System 24 lesson online program - to those who join with me in this step I am taking into the future…

It is my intention to assemble a group of individuals who are ready for profound change in their lives - and want to positively affect the world around them.

It is time to us live a life of real significance

Touching others in a manner which opens hearts and minds to a power greater than themselves - a power which transforms, uplifts and brings true joy and fulfillment - and real prosperity- is the most significant thing any of us can do in the time we have left with our lives.

Please join with me - the world has never been darker - more confused - or in more need of illumination. In this physical world that illumination can only be expressed through your heart into the hearts and minds of others.

Because first and foremost - you are a conduit of light from the source of all love - God.

Together we can change the world - one person at a time.

Please call me at 406-475-3458 if you would like to talk about participating with me in this exciting new adventure.

Warmest Regards,

-Bob Baran

On Valentine’s Day Gwen posted this on her Dating For Marriage blog…

Every now and again something flows from my pen…

As the Sun rises above the mountains to the East
And lights the fields with a golden glow…

So does your smile light up my morning — my day — my life.

As the River flows — Rushing past the bank…
Carrying fertile silt to enrich the the delta…

So does your passion stimulate and enrich my soul.

As the mountains stand firm and tall — Challenging time and all…

So does your will to persevere against all obstacles…
Challenge and yet — Comfort me.

As the birds fly North toward Spring
And their Summer home…

So does my heart fly to you…
My love — my friend — my home.

May your Valentine find you and keep you warm.

I just wanted to share this original “Hallmark” moment that Gwen gave to me.

Having true love in your life is the best measure of success.

Bob Baran

I hope you enjoy this introduction video Gwen made for our sister-site www.romancetrap.com

As you may already know, we’ve been scheduling radio interviews — beginning later this fall — to introduce our new “The Romance Trap” book and dating for marriage system around the country.

I’ve written many times about my belief that finding true love is life’s most important experience.

I also believe that one of the greatest ongoing causes of inner turmoil is being in a relationship with the wrong person. It’s the single biggest “vital energy” drain that there is — and too many people deny or bury this disruptive part of their lives.

Then wonder why they can’t feel any real passion anymore — or why “something is missing” in their lives. The reason something is missing is — for too many people in our modern world — the most basic need of personal connection, true intimacy and love is going unfulfilled.

Gwen and I decided earlier this year that it was an issue that we had to address.

Our shared belief in the Intentional Prosperity™ philosophy made it quite clear to us that we had a responsibility to help those who are seeking true love. Which is the ultimate definition of a prosperity and abundance lifestyle.

If you know a single woman please forward this blog post to her. If she is still looking for the man of her dreams “The Romance Trap” is going to help her find the “good man” she knows in her heart is out there somewhere.

-Bob Baran

I’m going to make a statement that will be controversial for some of you and for others will ring with the truth–”routine sex” is making you old and bitter.

The majority of women have never had an “all encompassing” deeply satisfying sexual experience–and the majority of men have never fully embraced the “man inside” and mastered his (kundalini) sexual energy — which is necessary for a woman to have a deeply satisfying experience.

Most adults have what I would call “immature” sex. Whatever their earliest experiences with sex happened to be is pretty much what their experience continues to be–for the rest of their lives. In a nut-shell: “body-sex”–which as time goes on, becomes little more than a mechanical routine, instead of one part of the profoundly connecting deeply loving experience between a man and a woman, sexual connection is supposed to be.

Why else do you think divorce rates are above 50% for first time marriages and as high as 70% for second marriages?

The answer is simple: The natural man and natural woman have been systematically erased from our culture. We’re left with images and impressions all based upon “body-sex” which is only one component of the several components necessary for a deeply satisfying sexual connection between a man and a woman.

Your culture is selling you a bill of goods when it comes to sex.

You’re constantly being titillated, teased and manipulated by images, impressions and feelings that are the false promise of “body-sex”. Without connection, love and true intimacy, sex is fleeting, forgettable, unsatisfying and empty.

It leaves you feeling that something is missing in your life because the most basic primal need you have is not being addressed–which is worse if you happen to be married! Don’t think for a minute that your spouse isn’t feeling the very same thing! He or she is–absolutely!

Not verbalizing how he or shel feels, to you, is part of the “cultural conditioning” problem.

Sex isn’t important? Go ahead–live your life and make the best of things–loosing yourself in your day-to-day life activities–which at the end of the day also seem un-fulfilling, empty and directionless. Robbed of your natural sexual energies–being amplified–your life will feel incomplete and directionless. No amount of distraction or escapism is going to fill that void or change anything.

You can’t live a full life by ignoring or outright denying one of nature’s most powerful natural sources of joy, fulfillment, grounding, connection, intimacy and amplified life energy–which is possible between a man and a woman. It’s in our DNA and it’s how men and women are hard-wired.

You can’t continue to go through the superficial motions of body-sex–only to feel empty and wanting more–you have to do something about it or you will become old and bitter before your time.

I told you this was going to be controversial.

-Bob Baran

If you had to choose one thing in your life as the most important… More important than anything else. What would it be?

Would it be a possession? A career? An idea? A pet? Or would you choose a person, a relationship?

You can only choose one. There is no room for anything else in this hypothetical exercise. So, what’s it going to be?

For me, and for Bob, the one thing we both would chose would be our relationship with each other. I would choose Bob as what is most important to me.

Do you have a relationship with someone that transcends all other things in your life? Do you wish you did? Or is your car or career the most important thing in your life?

A divorce rate of over 50 percent makes it clear… many people are choosing the wrong person. Or they are putting something other than their relationship first. A marriage is an important step. It is meant to be a coming together of like minds, hearts and bodies, to create something greater than yourself. And I’m not just talking about children here.

I’m talking about being able to accomplish more than you ever dreamed possible.

One of the truths of this plane we live on is that when two people come together, focus and work toward a common goal, more is achieved than if each person were working on the same project individually. Two can get more done than the work of three!

The reverse of this phenomena can also happen. Put two people together that distract and tear at each other and they will accomplish less than if they worked apart from each other. Two completing less, than the work of one.

The key is choosing someone who is a good fit! This is important in business. And even more so in a marriage.

If you want a marriage that succeeds beyond your wildest dreams, it makes sense to take some time and be aware enough to choose someone who you can grow with. Someone who is a good fit!

I don’t know about you, but I sure would like to see that divorce rate drop down into the low 30 percent rate. At least it would be a start.

Would you like to know more about how to choose a mate that fits? Give us a call… 406-475-3458 … Monday through Friday - 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Mountain time. Or you can email your questions anytime through our website: www.intentionalprosperity.com where you can find more information on living the life of your dreams.

If you don’t know what is most important to you, we can help you get clear on what you really want. You could be soon living the life you love and be loving the life you live… And be sharing it with someone who is your perfect fit.

To your success,

- Gwen Baran